Four reasons to question marriage love ideals

Love idealsIntimate relationships and love ideals are a touchy topic anywhere, but the consequences of marriage, relationship breakups, and vengeance for rejection should make us willing to scrutinize our beliefs.  Ideals should not blind us to facts. In some countries, divorce is almost impossible due to the force of custom, but custom itself does not make any belief true.

Love ideals tend to hide when the ideals are merely self-serving and when they, in fact, don’t serve us

  • We forget concepts are mental and treat love ideals as facts.

Love ideals are conceptual and like the concept of a sweet cake, we never taste the conceptual cake and this metaphor holds true Continue reading Four reasons to question marriage love ideals

Freedom to love

FreedomPeople wrongly confuse one who defends any lover’s freedom to love or even to leave, with NOT caring about that lover.  

Valuing someone beyond being a means to our own ends is immense respect for another, it recognizes their life is precious as an end unto itself. Continue reading Freedom to love